Find Joy, in Joy

“The practice,” her Spirit said, “is finding Joy, in joy”. …… What? Her entire career she’s worked in being of good service to others, and she was dynamite at it. Detailed, professional, determined, super organized, great communicator, clear and objective, goal-focused, kind, compassionate, patient, and caring. She is and was a professional, outstanding. With all that said, there wasn’t a lot

You’re Not Planning Your Future if You’re Speaking in the Past

I recently met with a client who has been in a life struggle of hurt and confusion that has left her and her entire family in a sense of loss. They have no idea how to move forward from here. As we were working together, I keep noticing how she tells me stories about what other people had done, how

What Did You Expect? The Need for Clarity in Our Expectations

“They should know”. “We’ve been together since high school. I shouldn’t have to tell him when something is wrong”. “She knows what’s wrong if she’s paying any attention”.   Ugh. These words strike pain in my chest every single time I hear them. And, I hear often.     Why do we have expectations of people to know what we want,

No Such Thing as Opposite

“I feel torn – like there are two sides of me”, she said, wringing her hands in her lap, “on one hand I feel like it’s the best thing that could happen to me, and I’m excited for what can come. But on the other hand, I love what I do and am sad to leave it.” Not abnormal at all,

The One by Guest Writer Kristie Hennen

Kristie is a travel nurse, adventurer, and truth seeker on all levels. She employs wisdom and perspective that is clear, value-driven, encouraging, and absolutely refreshing. You can find Kristie at any moment with her toes in a lake, her elbows on the family table, or gazing at the wonderous views from the top of a mountain. She is a bright

Family of Origin, but Not Destination

Tears ran down her cheeks as she spoke at my table about the trials and tribulations of her upbringing. Not in detail, but in general. Deep within her was the strongest desire ever to speak on behalf of herself and so many others whose childhood was less than ideal. In the energy of her right hip and leg existed the

Bring Your Amazing

You’re amazing’ they said. “You arrived there innately gifted and fully equipped for your life.” This dear, incredibly talented woman was once again being gripped by the demon called self-doubt. The torcher of self-doubt is never far away from many of us. We are all ready to crank life up to the next level and there suddenly in our path to greatness

A is for Attitude

It’s hot, I’m sweating, the mosquitoes that had been quiet until then, were starting to buzz and bite, the leftover clouds from the morning’s rain were breaking up and the sun was out in full force making it hot and humid. Because why have just one when you can have both? I love the idea of being a sustainable food

Living a Legacy – Seeing the Signs

“Did you notice?” I asked him even though I knew he didn’t, and was too busy to even care. “Notice what?” he responded, not even looking up from his task of pulling wires. “The dumpster”, I responded. “Yeah, it’s here”, again, completely disinterested in where I was going. About a half hour later we were both out in the driveway

Thin as a Whisper, Nudge, or a Flash

“It was there, and then it was gone! Like in a flash!”, the intensity in his voice was absolutely undeniable…he was freaked out! “I was just walking down the hallway to the bathroom, and when I passed my daughter’s bedroom door, I swear I saw her standing there!” Ah, the all too common experience when someone’s woo-woo mind starts to