I said to him with zero hesitation, knowing in advance, it may not be received comfortably, “If you want to build a relationship that is founded in trust then grab a shovel and dig for it.”
His spirit was very clear with him that he was in a place in his life of not quite knowing what to do or how to do it, but his soul and his body and his mind and emotions let him know that he was yearning for something more than what he had currently.
His heart’s desire and gift into this world is a connector. He brings people together, whether in his personal life or in business. He is a magnet. To say that people love him is an understatement, but in the last few years, his faith has been tested over and over and over. In the eyes of his Spirit, its growth. He has left a place where he was scratching the surface in his relationships, yearning to really be seen and heard and experienced on a deeper level. That is what brought us to this conversation where his guides were crystal clear that he could not get what he truly desired in his soul from where his habitual mind had taken him up to this point. If he wanted different, then he had to be and do, and cultivate different.
We talked about the assumptions that were being made while sitting in a recent meeting. Watching peoples reactions to the things that he said, assuming he knew what they were thinking and accordingly what they were feeling about him.
“That’s great,” I said, “except you’re assuming everything because you know nothing.” He laughed and tossed his head back.
“You are absolutely right. I never thought of it that way.”
In this time we are being asked to bring clarity into who we are, how we are, and how we walk that into the world. Whether our relationship with ourselves, friends and family, coworkers, or to our nation, or global consciousness. This is a time of us having our feet held to the fire.
It’s intense, it’s uncomfortable, and for each, and everyone of us, in the eyes of our Spirit, is absolutely necessary for our growth and continued ability to craft into this new age.
Make no mistake, this is not a punishment for anything in fact, it is the complete opposite. It is Spirit asking us to live more deeply, to connect, intentionally, and to bring our heart and our soul to what is most meaningful for us.
Be that, Do that. Ask yourselves to dig deeper and to be more open, honest and respectful in the life you are crafting for yourself alongside of others and most importantly within yourself.
Trust the process, and grab a shovel.
Forever the journey,
Anne